Recognizing and Managing Tantrums in Early Childhood

Authors

  • Susiana
  • Em. Thonthowi Jauhari Program Studi PIAUDI, Fakultas Tarbiyah, Institut Agama Islam Hamzanwadi Pancor Lombok Timur
  • Ismayadi Ismayadi Institut Agama Islam Hamzanwadi Pancor

DOI:

https://doi.org/10.58258/fbhf1e86

Abstract

Tantrums are a natural form of emotional outburst in early childhood, stemming from psychological development processes and limited communication skills. However, the inability of parents and educators to recognize and manage tantrums often leads to ineffective parenting practices, which can negatively impact a child's future emotional development. This article aims to identify the emotional characteristics of tantrums in young children and formulate effective management strategies for parents and educators. A literature review method was employed, analyzing various scientific publications, journals, and books relevant to child developmental psychology. The findings indicate that tantrums fall into two primary categories: frustration-based tantrums (resulting from limited abilities) and manipulative tantrums (aimed at getting what the child wants). Early recognition of the triggers and types of tantrums is crucial for successful management. Effective management strategies include self-calming techniques (such as appropriate "time-outs"), validating emotions without yielding to manipulative demands, and teaching emotional regulation from an early age. The article concludes that consistent, calm, and supportive handling of tantrums by caregivers can help children develop strong emotional intelligence for the future. Tantrums are intense, uncontrolled emotional reactions that typically occur in children aged one to four. While tantrums are a normal part of child development, they can present a significant challenge for parents.
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Published

2026-11-01

How to Cite

Recognizing and Managing Tantrums in Early Childhood. (2026). JISIP (Jurnal Ilmu Sosial Dan Pendidikan), 10(4), 2278-2290. https://doi.org/10.58258/fbhf1e86